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Personal Lubricant and the Female Orgasm: 2 Perspectives.

Posted on March 10, 2008 by Alec Filed Under Ingredients, Intimacy, Uncategorized | Leave a Comment

When it comes to personal lubricant there are those of us who, like that hedonic calculator Jeremy Bentham before us, have a lube-tilitarian perspective. In the lube-tilitarian perspective the Means are set aside in favor of a focus on the Ends personal lubricant can achieve. The primary End is, of course, orgasm. In the case of the female orgasm, I am struck that there seem to be two camps on how Lubricant achieves the orgasmic end. The first camp goes the way of ice, championing the lubricant that desensitizes the penis. The idea being that longer the male orgasm is postponed, the greater the female’s chances of orgasm are. The other camp prefers fire, championing warming lubricants. Here the female orgasm is encouraged by the warmth of the lube. It has always been clear to me that this lubricant dichotomy is the essence of what Robert Frost wants to express in his immortal poem, “Fire and Ice.”

Some say the world will end in fire;
Some say in ice.
From what I’ve tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To know that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.

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Robert Frost

And now…Personal Lubricant

Posted on March 8, 2008 by Alec Filed Under Cheeky | Leave a Comment

Why personal lubricant? Why lubricate at all? Perhaps personal lubricant is a misleading term, as lubricating is not a strictly personal affair. After all, when we lubricate our person, it is for our intimacy partner that we lubricate it. And yet it is also for ourselves that we lubricate. This is, after all, the overt message in The Wizard of Oz: personal discovery begins with personal lubrication–before the Tin Man can discover the secrets within his heart he must first get lubed up. And that is the message that I have always come away from The Wizard of Oz with. And that is why I begin with you know my own voyage of personal discovery, a voyage beginning with personal lubricant.

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